The Adoption Process
The process for adopting from China involves three basic steps:
- Paperchase: gathering the necessary documentation
- Referral: the CCAA matches you with an orphan
- Travel: fly to China to pick up your child
at a time, except in the rare case of twins or older siblings. Before families may
adopt another child from China, the previous adopted child must have been home for
a year. China will allow singles to adopt; however, there is a quota on the number
of single people that can adopt each year.
For the paperchase, you need to have birth certificates, marriage license, physicals, financial statements, verification of employment, criminal history checks, approval from USCIS (the agency formally known as INS), and a letter of intent to adopt. All of those documents must be notarized, certified by the Secretary of State for the state in which they have been notarized, and then authenticated by the Chinese Consulate for the appropriate state. In addition to those documents, you also need copies of your passport, photos of your family life, and passport photos of the parents. Additionally, a home study must be completed on your family. This involves meeting with a social worker and telling all the personal aspects of your life, then having the social worker write a short biography about you and your fitness as parents (not as scary as it might sound). Once you have all your papers together, you are ready to submit them to the adoption agency.
So, in the matching room, you are matched with a child. There doesn't seem to be any known formula as to how they match parents and kids, but it always seems to work out very well. One anecdotal story we have heard is that officials make a 'map' of the facial features of the parents and then try to match that map to a child based on the belief that your personality can be read in your facial structure. Regardless of the method, once you are matched with a child, you receive a referral. A referral is a brief description of your child, a couple of pictures (usually a few months old), and some medical information about the child. You are given a couple of days to decide if you want to accept the child. A majority of the time, parents accept their referrals, only rarely are they turned down.
The wait between DTC and referral is constantly changing. Any number of factors can slow down or speed up the process. Currently, the wait is about 8 months from DTC to referral. The wait has been as long as 14-15 months. There also are no firm guidelines as to when the next batch of referrals is to be issued. There has been about 6 weeks between referrals, but nothing is firm.
